Sounds like a good habit. In
order to have a successful writing career, one must purposely develop habits to
make this happen. In talking with aspiring writers, a common thread emerges in
their comments as to why they don’t.
Of these, two consistent obstacles
derail their efforts for a writing career—and I’ve experienced these in my own
life.
Ø I can’t find the time to write.
Believe me, I feel your angst. I
used to say this, too, until I realized it was a ridiculous lie I told myself
for various reasons. Lack of confidence, lack of support, overcommitted to
other things, working, and being a mother and wife. The list was endless. Some
were legitimate excuses at times, but most of the time that’s exactly what they
were—excuses.
Even for published writers,
distractions like platform building, mentoring, or writer’s block can devour your
time. This is when it’s most important to be deliberate in setting daily goals,
whether it’s word count, blocking time, or finishing a chapter for your latest
book manuscript.
While platform building is vital
for a writer’s success, how much time do you waste on social
media? What begins as a way to connect with readers can also become a bad habit
and hinder a writer’s discipline to accomplish goals. It becomes an excuse when
we don’t feel like writing.
It usually goes something like
this for me. My characters won’t cooperate or my mind is not clear on how to
proceed, so I decide to check my Twitter account. After all, maybe my followers
list needs tweaking. I have to keep an eye on that. Wonder what’s happening on
Facebook? Maybe I should check that while I’m taking a break. It wouldn’t hurt
to respond to a few emails, as well.
The problem is when we’re playing
on Twitter or Facebook, our characters are, too. Our readers aren’t ever going
to discover if Lassie rescues Timmy from the well or Harry escapes the clutches
of Lord Voldemort or whatever our characters are supposed to be doing, if we
don’t get on with the writing.
I guard against this during
creative droughts by forcing myself to put words on the screen and create
scenes and dialogue, not worrying about how it sounds or reads. Later, I
re-read and tweak, and usually to my surprise, it’s not as awful as I first
believed. But even if most of what I wrote gets cut or revised, the discipline
of forcing words onto the page develops the habit.
Becoming a successful writer
takes consistent work. This only comes through diligence in time management.
Ø I don’t have my own space to be creative.
We used to have one computer in our
home. Given the fact that I also run a medical transcription service, it seemed
someone was always standing in line to use the computer. Kind of hard to be
creative under those circumstances. J
Still, I snatched a few minutes here and there to work on short stories and
articles. I also went to the library where quiet space is plentiful.
Consider this for a moment. Writing
can be done away from the computer. Sometimes I do my best plotting when I’m
exercising, taking a shower, or enjoying a long walk.
During the time my family of four
shared a computer, I also used a notebook to write down ideas or plot points.
I’d craft opening paragraphs or queries for non-fiction articles. A
designated “physical space” is not necessary to do this, as much as finding a place to consistently be alone and write.
Now I write on a laptop at my
kitchen table. From my vantage point, I can look through my sunroom windows to the
outdoors. I’ve found this to be more creative than sitting at my desk in the
office/guest room where I transcribe medical reports. The kitchen table is not
an ideal situation for some families, but it works for us.
I found another Stephen King
video to share this week. J He and author
of The Time Traveler’s Wife, Audrey
Niffenegger, discuss the habits they’ve developed in regards to writing space
and setting in order to be creative.
Laura,
ReplyDeleteThanks for this powerful post about the disciplines of writing. I agree about social networking. I love to do it, but it takes so much time. Someone recently shared they write before they do networking. Then if they take a short break, they look at one post...etc.
This just reinforces my need to put writing before facebook, twitter.
Thanks again for sharing.
Hi Glenda, I'm glad you found the post helpful. I agree that we need breaks because I certainly couldn't write all the time. Thanks for stopping by! I always enjoy hearing from you.
DeleteLaura,
ReplyDeleteThanks for this powerful post about the disciplines of writing. I agree about social networking. I love to do it, but it takes so much time. Someone recently shared they write before they do networking. Then if they take a short break, they look at one post...etc.
This just reinforces my need to put writing before facebook, twitter.
Thanks again for sharing.
I have three writing days a week and plan my writing--professional and my own--around those days. When my children were home it was harder because besides being a momma, I also was a pastor's wife. I would get up at 4 each morning and write until 7 when I needed to get my daughter up for school. It does take discipline, but it worked.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your experience, Pamela. Sounds like you are a very motivated writer. God bless you.
DeleteLOVE this post.
ReplyDeleteI relate to all of these struggles. As a mom of six, I am constantly busy and I constantly have other things I could be doing. And the temptation to waste time on social media- instead of wrestle through an issue to write it, or (heaven forbid) to EDIT something- this is something I constantly need to watch!
I have carved out afternoons. (Naptime) and I try very hard to make at least 1 hour of that time be actual WRITING.
Great post!
Thanks for sharing, Emily. I agree that some of wasting time is avoidance. Writing is not all fun. A good bit of it is wrestling and editing. I'm glad you found a way to make it work. God bless.
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